Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Open Letters: Dear Bal Thackeray

Mainak Dhar is an alumnus of IIM-Ahmedabad whose career in the corporate sector has spanned almost a dozen years across Mumbai, Bangkok and now Singapore. Cubicle dweller by day and writer by night, he has written six books, including the best-selling novel, The Funda of Mix-ology. Learn more about it at www.getthefunda.com.

In this new series, Mainak writes open letters to people in the news, commenting on the state of affairs in the world today. Today’s column is an open letter to Shiv Sena supreme, Bal Thackeray.

Dear Sir,

I realise that writing anything remotely critical to you is fraught with risk, given your followers’ tendency to let their fists do the talking in any debate. However, I couldn’t help but reply to your recent statement that Hindus should also form suicide squads to combat the threat they face from Islamic terror groups.

At the outset, I should clarify a couple of things. I am as disgusted as you are by the almost daily terror attacks we have almost begun to take for granted. Also, like many friends, at times, I too have sometimes vented my frustration by suggesting we bomb the terrorist training camps across the border. So there is no question that the status quo can be maintained. We cannot let ourselves remain a soft target for terrorists and our police and intelligence agencies must shift from being purely reactive to more proactively targeting terror cells.

On a longer term basis, we do need to find a sustainable solution, one which will inevitably involve signaling to our neighbours in the West that maintaining a low intensity conflict with us through terror strikes is a strategy that will be too expensive for them to continue- in diplomatic, economic, and military terms.

However, your proposal is an extreme one, to say the least, and coming from someone of your influence, will register with millions of people. I guess you must have already seen and read about all the flak your article has attracted, including a couple of calls for you to be arrested. So I won’t repeat the criticism. Instead, I’ll build on your idea and see where it leads us.

As you seek to create these ‘Hindu fidayeen’, the first question will be one of recruitment. Ordinary civilians do not overnight become suicide bombers. Even trained soldiers are drilled to preserve their lives and sacrifice it as a last resort. Most studies of the suicide bomber phenomenon say that these individuals are motivated not just by anger, but by a sense of helplessness- a sense that the only way they can fight back against a superior enemy is to sacrifice themselves. So you could start by recruiting young men and women who have lost family members to terror attacks and communal riots.

The next factor would be indoctrination - becoming a suicide bomber requires a mindset that comes with steady training - so you could open special training camps for these candidates. Camps where they learn not just about how to use arms and explosives but also build up their mental readiness to end their lives on command.

Suicide bombers also tend to be successful when there’s a ready pool of new recruits which you will need, since attrition, by definition, tends to be high. In places like Palestine, what’s been apparent is that new recruits are most forthcoming when becoming a suicide bomber is seen as a noble and rewarding task. So suicide bombers are lionised and celebrated as heroes and their surviving family members are lavishly rewarded. In your case, perhaps you could feature them in your party’s newsletter, and give out cash awards and government jobs to their next of kin.

Once they’re ready, comes the question of their use. Suicide bombers are by definition not defensive weapons, so you could use them to attack Muslim settlements. It certainly would be a more ‘cost effective’ way of creating communal carnage. While you’re at it, and have built up the infrastructure, you could even consider ‘exporting’ this pool of talent, sending them on missions to neighbouring countries, hitting at them when our government is unwilling to use conventional military force.

Before we go any further, lets just stop and re-read the last few paragraphs. All of these are but a natural extension of your idea. But if we did all this, would there be any difference between us and the terrorists we are fighting; would there be any difference between our country and our dysfunctional neighbour to the West; and would there be any difference between those who lead and organise this and the likes of Osama bin Laden?

I’m sure that’s not what you had in mind. Or did you?

Warm regards,
Mainak


Picking the Right Friends From the Madding Crowd

As we go along our life, we constantly meet different kinds of people. We talk to them, share lunch together, or join them in regular activities like weekend badminton games or movie watching. They most likely have smiles on their faces when they are with us. But the main question is whether we would embrace them as real friends in the truest definition of the term or treat them as mere acquaintances only. Remember our parents, genuinely concerned about our well-being, would remind us over dinner to wisely choose the people we would associate with? Failure to discern who you mingle with will eventually lead you to trouble or worse a miserable life due to bad company.

Yet, how do we spot who are real friends among the crowd that we come across with in our daily grind. How do we find the people who will be there beside us and honestly look after our welfare? The bad news is there are no books that give answers to all questions regarding friendship. Nevertheless, the good news is experience stands as a good ally coupled with common sense and an ounce of gut feel.

Know Thy Self First

Since what we are after are real true friends, we must understand that they are our extension. How many times have we heard the adage: birds of the same feathers flock together. Friends are our chosen family based on our standard emanating from our self-worth. To find real and true friends one first ought to have a notion of one-self. The individual necessarily has to acknowledge these innate prerequisites given about him:

  • He is important and has value - a person must know that no matter what his state in life is, he matters. His views, perspective in life and his whole being is of value.
  • He deserves to be happy - there are no signs anywhere that tells one must be miserable. He deserves all the opportunities by which he can be happy and fulfilled.

If one has already known these basic intrinsic rights, then he can proceed smoothly in identifying the persons whom he can call true friends. By then, it is automatic that he has a notion or a glimpse of what his objectives in life are. Establishing this set of intrinsic rights of his being, he should by then established a good self-esteem and confidence. That he is a 'valuable cargo' as one popular author puts it.

When one knows his value in life then it will be easier for him to discern who his real and true friends are. Not knowing one's importance oftentimes is one of the reasons why an individual hangs out with the wrong set of people.

Signs of Who Your True Friends Are

  • Life is wonderful when you are with them. Life as it is, is sometimes hard and difficult. But once you are with this set of people your problems seem easy to bear and are given solution. Have you noticed that there are people who make you weak and strong? The former are people called energy vampires. They suck your emotional energy by making you miserable one way or the other. The latter are the positive oriented people who are bearer of light. With these people the difficult problems are easy to solve; the impossible problems take time to be given solution.
  • Your perspective are respected and understood. It is of course not always true that you are right about your views and opinions. But with true friends who are after your welfare, what you say has value, respected and understood before given indirect alternative views. When everything you say is always debunked, then these set of people do not treat you as their equals. Better stay away from them lest they imbibe in you that you are worthless.
  • They are more goal-oriented. When you want to achieve something in life, hanging out with this kind of people more or less makes you more focused on attaining your goals. These people talk about action and applying it to their plans. It is better if you hang with them since they understand fully well what is in your head than not. More than that, they can even give moral support to whatever you want to attain.

These are NOT your Friends

  • After hanging out with them, you are more miserable and problematic as before. Time spend with these set of people can be a wondrous kind of experience. You may have had a fine taste of fun. Life can even be construed as wonderful as you mingle with them. But once you are home, you find yourself in state of deeper misery. Your problems are not even solved but even become worse. Better stay out of these set of people; these people are what the cliché says as fair weathered friends.
  • Sowing emotional poison is more of a rule during conversation. When the people you are with talk most of the time about other people and pass on to you harsh criticism and bad gossip about other people inside and outside your circle, you better avoid them like plague. These people suffer in great misery. And what do those experiencing misery are inclined to do? They want company. So they spread emotional poison.

The above list points out several things that you may consider when looking for true friends. You can add more to the list based from your experience. What is important is that you have a set of standard of who you can call as true friends.

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Thursday, June 19, 2008

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Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Guide To Buying The Plus Size Clothing

Beginning at the top, if you have a large chest then don't wear button down tops that pull at the chest area, also do not buy a top that is big enough for the chest but looks baggy on the rest of your torso because you will look bigger. The best trick for this look is to wear a camisole or tank underneath your shirt and either leave the top shirt completely unbuttoned or button it only halfway. To make this look work well wear a colorful camisole or tank underneath a dark colored shirt. In order to wear the latest look, tunics, begin with a very good a supportive bra. Do not follow the wireless trend here, a good bra will make you look much more put together. The tunic you are wearing should have either a large band of a different color, or a gather that sits right below the bust but is not a different color. Ribbons or small bands can look very bad on a plus sized woman especially when she is sitting.

Now onto pants, black pants, khakis, go with simple solid colors or vertical pinstripes. Pants should not be tight in the thigh area when you're standing and should be at most moderately tight when sitting. Stretch fabrics are the most comfortable but should still be loose fitting. Choose straight leg or slightly flared, do not choose tapered leg pants, in all honesty they don't look good on anyone especially larger women.

Dresses are best worn with body shapers underneath and should be a solid color.

Colors, solid colors or understated prints are best. Pinstripe pants or a very small plaid design can look good. Follow the rules you've been told, DO NOT wear horizontal stripes or bold prints. You can make your look different with textures instead or prints believe it or not.

Accessories, if there's one thing to spend money on in your wardrobe it should be good bras. These bras can be rather expensive but the way a good bra makes you look in your outfit will make or break the outfit. Shoes are another thing that can make you look good or bad. Try not to wear flats, for very large women flats can allow your feet to spread and look bad. Heels make you look taller and leaner. They don't have to be skinny heels, a larger chunky heel actually looks better with straight or flare leg pants. Find a good shoe with a chunky heel and then buy it in every color, wedges, and platforms in a current style or also good.

Most of all wear what you are comfortable in, if someone tells you that you look good but you don't feel comfortable your doubt will show all day and you will probably never wear the outfit. Also ask yourself this question when trying out an outfit. "If I saw myself wearing this outfit would I say ohhh she should look in the mirror before she leaves the house, or would I stop her and ask where she got it?" Also don't be afraid to take things back if you get home and decide you don't like it.

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Breast Implants and Health Insurance Coverage Facts

Breast implants are usually done for cosmetic reasons and there are huge costs involved in getting those implants.

Now the health insurance as a rule do not pay for the surgery done for cosmetic reasons and there are several other areas where the health insurance does not pay for the costs involved. These are

Breast augmentation
Any medical care you would you need should there be any complications of breast implant surgery.
If you need revision surgery after the initial breast augmentation
Or lastly, if you need to remove the implants.

So if you are planning to get the surgery make sure that you take into account any of the items that I have listed above. Each of these above cost big sums of money so make sure to think ahead and all the future costs related to breast augmentation.

In some cases there are insurance companies who drop you from coverage if you have undergone the surgery. So make sure that ask your insurer that will you still get health insurance once you undergo surgery. Make sure that whether they will or will not cover major breast ailments like cysts or breast cancer.

The costs involved in the breast surgery can range $4000 to $7000. There are additional costs involved which are hospital facility costs, anesthesia costs, prescriptions and medical costs.

As you explore options for breast surgery you need to make sure that you go for the board certified plastic surgeon. The doctor should be board certified for the kind of surgery you are undergoing. Also if you are exploring low coat option abroad think again. It can be very risky and you have no idea about the quality of doctors over there. There is far less regulation in other low cost countries so you may end being treated by a not so qualified surgeon.

Health insurance companies also do not cover any amount expense related to complications that arise from breast implants. The insurance companies do not cover any removal costs whatsoever and these costs can run up to $10000. Also there are no installment payment plans available for removal of the implants. So if you had your surgery for insertion and then immediately you would need removal then there is no option for you but to fund it yourself. Also if you have silicone breast implants then each year you need to have an MRI done to detect leakage and that will also not be covered by insurance.

So make sure that you take all costs into account while thinking of breast augmentation options.

The author has a resource for breasts and breast augmentation in Dallas He believes that if you are looking at breast augmentation in Dallas make sure to look at several other neighbouring areas like Fortworth to reduce your surgery costs.

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Friday, June 6, 2008

Some Tips On How To Make The Perfect Cup Of Coffee.

If like me you really enjoy a good cup of coffee to get you going in the morning, or just like to relax with a cup of coffee while reading the paper, these simple tips should help you enjoy your coffee even more.

In Italian the term espresso means made on the spot, and an espresso should always be served immediately after making. No matter what you are drinking whether you are having a latte or a cappuccino, it will be based on an espresso. On average it will take about 42 coffee beans to make an espresso.

What has more caffeine an espresso or a normal cup of filter coffee, you may be surprised to learn that it is normal filter coffee. The amount of caffeine in a cup of coffee is determined by the length of time the water is in contact with the coffee beans. That means if you are looking for a good caffeine hit, surprisingly, you will be better of going for a normal filter coffee.

What you should be looking for in a good espresso is a that it has a dark colour; it is rich in taste and has a natural light brown froth on the top. The froth on top is called the crema. You will find that the crema is the heart and soul of the true espresso flavour, and is the true sign of a good cup off coffee.

When making a cappuccino remember to follow the rule of thirds one-third espresso, one-third steamed milk and one-third foamed milk. If you remember this simple formula you will make the perfect cappuccino every time.

How your coffee will taste depends on the types of beans that are used to make it. The taste of the bean can also be affected by the how and where the coffee bean is grown. How the coffee bean was processed after being picked will also affect the taste. This means that you should really think about the type of coffee bean that you buy for your home or while out at the coffee shop. You may find that you prefer the taste of Java coffee or coffee grown in Hawaii is more to your liking. Just remember to buy top quality beans as this will always make a difference. Whether you buy your own beans and grind your own, or by beans already ground, how you store the coffee can have an affect on the coffee's taste. Always try and store the beans/grounds in an airtight container, I also like to store the container in the refrigerator to keep them fresh.

Also remember to use good water, after all coffee is 98% water. If your tap water is poor quality I would try and use filtered water. You may think of using bottled water, but I would advise against this purely based on that it isn't good for the environment.

If you keeping these tips in mind you should be able to make yourself a perfect cup of coffee every time.