Here is the interesting thing about men who attempt to avoid rejection from women; the moment they find themselves interacting with a woman, the pressure in their mind is much greater than the reality of the situation warrants.
In addition, thanks to their desire to avoid rejection, they also find themselves with fewer options than they should have in the situation.
Your desire to avoid rejection makes the few interactions you do have with a woman "one shot" deals and when you take that shot and miss instead of learning from it and moving on, you find yourself attempting a do over with her, at least in your mind.
After all, this attempt was an accident and a mistake because she rejected you and in your mind rejection didn't seem likely. Or maybe it did, but you thought you would try anyway and you failed.
Now, your desire to avoid rejection has you chasing a woman who rejected you because to have her withdrawal her rejection is the only way that you can avoid rejection with her.
Consciously, this makes no sense at all, but still happens quite often to men who are attempting to avoid rejection simply because the mind is great at getting what it wants.
Unfortunately, since you have no control over what a woman wants, once a woman rejects you there isn't much of anything you can do to make her change her mind.
Which is why avoiding rejection from women is crazy and chasing a woman after she rejects you is insane.
Of course, this also might be part of the reason why you feel so much pressure to succeed with this one particular woman when you focus on avoiding rejection from women.
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