Tuesday, May 6, 2008

How to Get the Love of Your Life

Have you being looking to meet the right person but nothing has been working?

Hopefully this article will shed more light on the blockages that you have been carrying around.

Old beliefs

The old beliefs of you always be alone for the rest of your life, and it is much harder for a woman than a man to meet someone are all old beliefs that comes up in attracting the right one because of fears.

You may notice when you set out to meet someone the fear of it not being the right one or a waste of your time is sometimes holding you back from moving forward.

Taking actions

To someone of you may take actions by meeting people, having blind dates or join the dating clubs only to strike out most of the time.

You may take the steps consciously but emotionally you are not open.

Asking for help

You may fear asking for help in meeting someone from family or friends because you would be afraid they will use it against you or that they have something over you, or they know your secret.

Fear of being alone

As you get older you may feel that it is never going to happen for you to meet the love of your life so you create the story that you will end up alone for the rest of your life.

Going to the extreme

You may think there is no hope of meeting the right one and begin to stop caring about you, about how you look feel or dress.

Your story

Your story maybe it does not hurt to see your friends going out together with their love ones or that they are taking vacations together and that it does not bother you because you are beyond that.

You may get tired being a threesome with your friends.

What to do?

Meeting new people and going out is not enough when you have not let go of the pass relationship and are still carrying the hurt with you.

You may still blame yourself or the other person.

You may feel that your loss love was the perfect person and you do not opening to meeting another.

The opening must come from inside you before you allow another into your life.

You need to create a space of openness to receive another love one and as you let go the pass then you open the door for another.

Conclusion: Opening to get the love of your life start with healing and letting go of the pass relationships.

2 comments:

Unknown said...

it was a lovely aritcle or i shall say the true picture of my life......
thanks a lot for atleast being frank in this world of hypocrites

Anonymous said...

NICE Blog :)